
At 49, I feel like I am halfway through the adventure of this life (I hope), and it is a wonderful time to reflect on accomplishments and look towards bigger and better opportunities. Life has gone the way it has simply because I stayed in the game. It wasn’t even always about whether I tried to make anything happen or not. I’ve just followed the lesson that was instilled from deep family values - try to do whatever you do as best you can.
My parents bought the house where we lived forever when I was just one-year old. 1957. It was surrounded by Tobacco fields, which later switched to corn, potatoes, eventually to Christmas trees, and some back to Tobacco. It was quiet; there were only 10 houses on our street and I was left to my own devices at an early age. My parents were very creative. My mom had even grown up next to Alexander Calder, and she had great stories about playing circus and making jewelry at her neighbor's house. She was a real Yankee. My Dad was Northern Italian - not just Italian but Northern. We didn't understand what any of that meant back then. And it didn't matter. My mom made meatloaf; my grandmother was a human tortellini machine. We were poor, especially when my father started his own specialty welding business in our garage. They tried to make us take foodstamps but my mom wouldn't use them.
I always wanted to make things. When I was about 8, I set out to make doll furniture. Through the winter, I had watched my dad building us chairs and desks from scrap wood. I planned and planned, hoarded my scraps over a period of time, drew the lines on my wood and turned the jigsaw on. My parents flew to the scene in the garage, spoiling my opportunity to build. They said they would do it if I needed something, but told me that the thing I wanted to do couldn't be done. They just wouldn't listen to reason, and I was banned from the tools. I was a girl.
As time went on, I became hopelessly addicted to painting and drawing. Out from the influence of high school, where I was the apple of my drawing and painting teacher's eye, I started to work three dimensionally. Sooner or later I learned about metal, and that was it. My parents’ business had grown incrementally, and there was some undesirable but free space to work in at the Welding Shop.
But now I’ll fast forward….to November 6th. I have a major 25-foot piece being unveiled at an upscale shopping mall in South Windsor, CT (my home town). More commissions are underway. My little ambassadors called Short Stories (in my original work), Fanciful Flights when licensed by Silvestri, and now Dazzling Damselles licensed by Roman, are for sale at Target. They hit the shelves on October 30th. 90,000 of them. Many years in the making….it is a milestone of a week.